13 October 2010

Oh, Lordy!

About one billion people in the world watched the Chilean miners being rescued today and we all rejoiced in the triumph of the human spirit. Thank God that this story had a happy ending. It is a reminder, however, that we never know what will happen when a loved one walks out the door and and there is always a chance that we will never see them alive again on this Earth. For this reason my wife Gina and I bless each other when we part each morning to go to our respective jobs or whenever we separate. We make the sign of the cross over each other and she usually says:

Yo te bendigo en el Nombre del Padre, del Hijo, y del Espíritu Santo.
Que vayas y regreses con bien.
Que San Pedro te cubra con su manto.
Que te proteja de toda clase de peligros.
Angel de tu guarda, dulce compañía, no lo desampares ni de noche ni de día.

I bless you in the Name of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit.
That you go and come back safely.
That San Pedro that will cover you with his cloak.
To protect you from all harm.
Guardian Angel of yours, sweet companion, do not forsake him night or day.

Then I pray over her but usually I just "wing it" and use my imagination because I imagine that God gets tired of hearing the same old thing all the time. After that we kiss and then we part but we never part if we are angry with each other. It is very comforting to know that if something happens, the last memory that we will have of one another is a benediction, a prayer, and a sweet kiss.

Speaking of using my imagination...about eight years ago I was visiting my elderly parents at their home in Arlington Heights, Illinois when both of them were still alive and well. They were in the habit of eating their main meal about two o'clock in the afternoon and Ma always set a nice table in the dining room. On this particular occasion my mother asked me to say grace and we all bowed our heads and...then my mind went blank! After about a half a minute my father said, "Well?" and I started clearing my throat to buy some time. Just then the refrain from the old song about the preacher and the bear wafted through my head so I ran with it. With great reverence and humility I prayed:

Oh, Lord, you delivered Daniel from the lion's den,
You delivered Jonah from the belly of the whale, and then,
The Hebrew children from the fiery blast so the good book does declare,
Oh Lord, for goodness sake, please nourish us with this, thy bounty.
A truly wonderful fare.
In Jesus name we pray. Amen!

My mother said, "My, but that prayer was quite different. It was very poetic though. Where did you learn it?".

I said, "I don't know Ma, I think it was an inspired prayer. Perhaps I was filled with the Holy Spirit and He inspired me".

My father mumbled, "Oh yeah? I think that maybe you are full of something else".

My mother said, "What was that George?".

Dad said, "Nothing Mel. I was just asking Bob if he wanted something else" and she said, "Oh yes, help yourself Bob, there is plenty of everything".

Out of the corner of my eye I could see my Dad staring at me so I focused on my mother. "Hey Ma!", I said, "So what do you think about the Cubs? Are they going to win the pennant?".

I really miss my parents and I look forward to seeing them again. I think that my Dad will have forgotten this particular incident and I am sure that the Lord has a sense of humor.

I HOPE !!!


The Last Quarter said...

Your story brought a smile, Bob. My wife and I don't offer a prayer every morning when we go to our respective jobs, but we do confirm our love and blessing to each other for our safe reunion. It's a good way to start our day outside this abode. Gracias.

bob in exile said...

That's what I'd call fast thinkin' Bob!!

GlorV1 said...

Yes we are all so happy and grateful that everyone came out. I've been watching since they started and said a prayer for each of them. They are a wondrous people, so linked together. Thank God for their return home.
On the prayer at the table, I always say: God is great, God is good, let us thank him for this food. Or another one I use at Thanksgiving is:
Bless us oh Lord for these thy gifts which we are about to receive, from thy bounty, through Christ our Lord, Amen.
Everyone always waits for me to say the prayer. Someone else is going to have to do it this year because husband wants to stay home. Oh well.
Nice post Bob and I love the idea of you saying the prayer with your momma and dad. Have a great Thursday.

Unknown said...

What a sweet story. My mom insisted on grace at the table, but only on Sunday because we were so rushed during the week. Sounds like something my dear old dad would have said.

Mama of 4 said...

I can imagine you and your wife every morning, how sweet! El Angel de la Guardia was the first prayer I ever learned as a kid, I love it.

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